What makes sex to be enjoyable is doing variety of activities. The styles you do together can enhance and prolong your sexual relationships. Both partiies must be willing to try something new and fully participate. Never judge something you have never tried and think it won't be good, try it first of course give it your maximum participation and see if it is not enjoyable.

Making love is not a one person affair, it requires both parties to be involved body, soul and mind. Roles are shared and no one is superior in love making. Try all positions and styles, invent new ones and be as flexible as possible. The above activity is Cowgirl. She is in control, she shakes her pelvis and allow the penis to penetrate her deeper. She can also hump up and down in this position.

This position above is another variation of cow girl or rider. She leans back and swerve her hips. This position excites most of women, since she is in control. Remember you are responsible to make this position the most exciting.

But when a woman is either lazy or not happy with her body she might find this type of sexercise as annoying, boring and uninteresting. In this style, a woman can control her orgasm, by her way of maintaining speed and intensity. To make this type of position to be interesting, the man should vocally admire her body, her boobs and the way she moves her body. E.g. Man: you remind me of that song ya R-Kelly, move your body like a snake.
Women become more active if they are communicated to about how they perform and move. Touch her breasts and soft-pinch her tits. This also gives a man a clear view of their genitals in action. He can also play with her clitoris to increase the fun.

Understanding of each others body and sexual desires spice up the sex life in a relationship. Sex connects two people both physically and emotionally. The more the satisfaction the more the pleasure.

Side by side, that is how people in a relationship should be. I should be able to see through you and vice versa. Openess is a pivotal key in relationships. I should be knowing you more than anyone.

If something doesn't suit you well, communicate it through with your partner. Never let it go over night without sorting it out. Poor communication cost lots of relationships. The more people communicate their differences the more they get to understand each other. Communication is not interrogation, but once one party feels interrogated they will defend themselfs which will lead to feads and fights. The better way is to try listen to each other and discuss resonably without being judgemental. Most relationship fights are caused by parties that wants to be superior and would do any to win the argument or discussion.
Remember this principle: "there are three sides to every relationship, his side...her side... And the truth." Avoid at all costs to be the one who is always 'right'.

The more open you are with each other the more stronger the relationship will grow. When you understand each, you will be able to tell your partner your dissatisfaction without the fear. When he didn't give you the orgasm you wanted, you will be able to tell that he performed bad and you want more. And when there is understanding he won't be angry and call you bad names. The same goes with guys.
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